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CLASS 5 -AGENDA
ANCESTRAL WIRING – DEATH OF THE EGO-BEING IN THE VOID AND COMING OUT OF THE VOID!
Note: Explore how to master the ability to love your low vibrational parts from the high vibrational consciousness of Core Being
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- WEEKEND THEMES
The void and ancestral wiring are key components of this weekend’s themes. Lets first discuss the void!So what is “being in the void” and why is it so powerful? Why is it also so painful? How do you assist a client in coming out of the void? How do you help a client master the pain and challenge of the void?Definition:
The void is when your old ego-based sense of self is gone, yet your new sense of self has not yet been reborn. Thus, the term entering the void! You are in between having given up the old identity, yet not knowing your new identity. Another way to think of the void is – a part of your ego has died, and you currently don’t know who you are anymore.
Because of this, the void can feel terrifying. After all, who wants to let go of the old self without first knowing who your new sense of self will be? It is like quitting your job, without having a new job in place. Your internal safety system has no support. Much of the pain is because the ego will fight and try to hold on to its current identity. The ego never surrenders to death easily – yet that is exactly what you need to do.
As you discover how to surrender, accept and trust, you can cross that abyss and eventually a new sense of self will reform and resonate at a higher vibration of wisdom and truth. Some of the riches you reap on the other side of the void include:
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- You become empowered to manifest more dreams into reality
- Your intuition expands
- You live from a more accurate view of who you really are (Core Being) as opposed to whom you have been programmed to be.
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(1) entering the void
(2) ego death and
(3) eventual rebirth of more Core Being is necessary if you are to raise your consciousness and improve your life.
Each time I do this process, it gets easier because I more easily trust and surrender; although, it is always extremely painful. There are two things that make it easier.
(1) You know you have gone through the process before so you more easily trust and surrender.
(2) The deep terror and emotional pain doesn’t define your inner value or your sense of self. In essence, you know you are not your ego so your very human pain becomes something you feel and transform and not something that defines you.
When you come out the other side of the void, you strengthen your ability to be the CEO of your life. You also deepen your authority (secure attachment) and thus create a healthy identification to your Core Being. Learning how to transform anger to power, is the second part of this weekend’s theme, and this process can help you overcome the deep fear the void invokes.
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- ANCESTRAL WIRING and ACHETYPES
Epigentics means that we can view the psychological effects of trauma being transferred from one generation to another. Generational trauma is a traumatic event that began decades prior to the current generation and has impacted the way that individuals understand, cope with, and heal from trauma.
Healing unhealthy ancestral and archetypical energies can create a consciousness shift throughout your lineage. To be successful, it is about revealing the subconscious saboteur within you. Discover your negative saboteur archetype and your positive higher-self archetype.
NOW, YOU MIGHT BE ASKING YOURSELF, “HOW DOES THIS SHOW UP IN FAMILIES?” GENERATIONAL TRAUMA CAN AFFECT A WIDE VARIETY OF FAMILIES AND SHOW UP IN WAYS THAT YOU MIGHT NOT THINK OF SUCH AS:
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A family might seem emotionally numb or have strong hesitancies about discussing feelings
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A family might see discussing feelings as a sign of weakness
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Another family might have trust issues with “outsiders” and seem continually conflictual
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Some families might seem anxious and overly protective of their children or family members, even when there is no threat of danger
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This is by no means a comprehensive list of examples of how trauma affects multiple generations. It can also show up in unhealthy relationship boundaries and families subconsciously learning unhealthy survival behaviors.
When we think about history, there are many groups that come to mind that have been affected by generational trauma such as descendants of United States enslavement, Native Americans, refugees, those that have experienced substance misuse across generations, those who have survived childhood abuse or neglect, and family members of Holocaust survivors, just to name a few.
Phew! That’s a lot to take in. Now, what CAN we do to stop generational trauma from continuing?
In the words of Bessel Van der Kolk (who wrote “The Body Keeps the Score”), the ability to feel safe is “probably the most important aspect of mental health”. When we grow up with family dynamics that make us feel unsafe, unvalidated in our feelings and experiences we can struggle to move past our personal and familial trauma. One of our jobs in therapy is to help our clients experience what is known as felt safety, which is an empathetic relationship based on the therapist’s unconditional acceptance of the individual’s thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
In coaching, it is our job as the therapist to assess clients holistically, meaning looking at the person, their environment, and their past, and work to help the client fully understand the meaning of their trauma so they can best heal from it. When we do this it can help bring to light the, “Why do I do this?” behind the negative behavior that is affecting the client’s life.
With generational trauma, it’s important to help the client think in terms of the identified problem being something that they were born into, not necessarily a problem that they have created for themselves. Another good resource book is by Pamela C Alexander is: Intergenerational Cycles of Trauma and Violence: An Attachment and Family Systems Perspective
- INTERVENTIONS
- Ancestral Wiring
- Use physical movement to ignite transformation
- Muscle testing
- Review Principles and apply them to clients (listed under documents)
Friday November 14, 2008
Meditation:
Come in: do a body scan starting at the top of the head. Physically, emotionally, mentally, physical.
Scanning thru whole body, VPC/chakra-spinning? Hooked into central chanel, are3y they holding anything? Imagine archetype for the chakras.what positive vibrations can you invite in.imagine..
Throat-what emotions. Show does it hook in? what archetype can support throat chakra?it’s about being your own attourity. About communication.blue is blue/greetn is green.about not need somebodies love to know you are whole/
Coming down to shoulders? What’s happening here (energetically, somatically, coredistrotions? beliefs? What’s here now?
Coming into your heart-front and back/what’s here now? How does it hook in? what archetype could support you here in the heart chakra.
Coming into solar plexus. front an dback..what’s here now? The mid bacxk the midbelly. The vortice for the core star. Self assessing down thru the second chakra. Whole pelvic,glute.pelvis-sexual organs
The thighs/knees/lower legs. What’s here now.. feet/
Bring to mind an area that is holding..imagine any ancestral cords where is in in your body. Imagine a cord.. whre it is in your body.. follow this cord, what part of your lineage is it? Let images coming to you.. what are your believes in the ancestral energy that are asking to receive the light. What is the positive archetype that could help that transform? Since some of you are already doing it, resourse that positive archetype to help transform it.. connecting breathe with awareness, keep breathing, drawing in more light to that part of the body, deep into to cellular structure.. feel it in your dna/microtubule /muscles.thru your auric field. Let the light come in. let there be no resitance. Let these new vibrations enter deeply into your bones/cells/tissues/ smell-know-feel it in you knowing the connection to the divine./ let this run thru your auric dimension. With the clear intention.. with receiving larger and larger amounts of this higher vibrations.. no breaks into to hara line.. let the hara realixe that it is time.. it is now, let the transformation happen..
Now imagine it filling your multidimensional fabric of interconnectedness.. to the 7th lieve touching the edges or your beinginess.. deeper into the 6th/5th/4/3/2/1st.
Smell/feel/let yourself embody it.. within you and your enterconnectedness to to sea of conscoulsness.feel the scroud come down and then invite the triple helix..say you are ready. Feel the passion/joy/bliss now, this moment. This cellular frequency.
Front back-top bottom-left right..
In your own time and space. Slowly/gently/compassionately..return to the room.
Let’s just start at the bottom , invite that energy of palee’
Not to be graphic, but breathe thru your holes.. breathe in Afferditie/palee/ kalle …breath thru your base.. breath thru your bones.. Breathe that deep thru your coccyx.. do some of that deep breathe. Let’s tone..ooohhhhhhmmmmm.. Remember that energy that we put into that spear into the ground that’s the energy that we are calling..
Have the crown open thru the central channel.. how wide can that central channel be? Just feel that frequency in your field. Breathe it in.. Invite Kalle/Afferdiete/Palee into our backs. In thru the cellular membrane.int he fluids of our body.. the water of Afferdietie.the strength of Kalle….the grounding of Palee.
Move your personality out of the way..be the vessel…just gently ask it to step aside and be the strength. Invite your golden shadow even stronger in.. let it in thru the front-back, top-bottom, left-right. Notice the resistance and still go there… invite the resistance to step aside and let the golden shadow to step aside and let it come in deeper.. ask Afferdiete and Palee to help you.. Surrender to the truth and the god withing.. feel the magnetic energy thru the body.. int the veins.. in all the meridians.. that strong earth magnetic energy.. feel it.. the vib..
Setting your intention to allow this energy to strengthen throughout the day.. to assist you during the interventions the practice sessions.. to heal any distortions..
In your own time and space.. gently come back into the room.
Skill 5
Webinar on Anxiety
RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN ARCHETYPES AND ANCESTRAL PATTERNS
Jung believed that archetypes could be linked to heredity and regarded them as instinctual. We are born with these patterns. They are held in our bodies and in the blueprint of our DNA as it is passed down through centuries. Jung even explored how archetypes are elemental forces that play a vital role in the creation of the world and of the human mind. Ancients called them “elemental spirits.” One writer explains it this way:
We all share a single universal unconscious. Mind is rooted in the unconscious just as a tree is rooted in the ground. Imagine the Universal Unconscious as a cosmic computer. Our minds are subdirectories of the root directory. If we look at our personal “work areas,” we find much material that is unique to our historical universal patterns. If we humans have the courage to seek the source to which our account belongs, we begin to discover ever more impersonal and universal patterns. The directories of the cosmic computer to which we can gain access are filled with the myths of the human species.
(Source: www.iloveulove.com/psychology/jung/jungarchetypes.htm)
When doing Ancestral interventions, we will be looking for the energetic wiring, which looks like a black wire. We will unwind the energetic root from entangling and diminishing the flow of energy through the chakra system and the Auric Field. When we disconnect the unhealthy wires (root free), we reconnect ourselves to the source of the healthier ancestral pattern or the main archetypical “directory” or elemental force.
During Ancestral interventions, often times archetypical patterns emerge. The two often become the same thing. For instance, we may have lived lifetimes as an abused woman. This is the challenging archetype of the wounded woman. We can bring in the positive energy of the heroine archetype to transform the LVC of the wounded woman archetype.
The heroine or hero archetype is represented in the legends of Hercules and Joan of Arc —figures who are confronted in numerous battles alone, on behalf of others much weaker than themselves.
ANCESTRAL REWIRING
1. Imagine where your negative ancestral wiring is held in your body/energy system.
2. Name the Ancestral negative pattern. What Archetype relates to it?
3. Imagine, feel, and then dissolve the negative wiring.
4. Feel the energy of the positive alternative taking hold.
If this is too difficult, ask a trained Me-B Guide to assist.
It is important to track the energy accurately and not impose an intervention upon a client or ourselves. Rarely do clients present with an archetype or ancestral intervention until they have done a significant amount of developmental work and are at least at Stage 4 of Me-B Transformation.
SOLO ARCHETYPE INTERVENTION—TOUCH OR NON‐TOUCH
- Step 1: Two options. Use this as a positive resourcing intervention and identify the positive archetype that your client identifies as a positive force. Or, you can notice your client discussing a negative archetype (such as victim) and suggest that you connect the cords of the opposite positive archetype (leader).
- Step 2: Come into your Intention Line and Core Being, resonating to its vibration. Let that vibration fill your field. Using intention, connect to the energy of the positive archetype you wish to bring into the client’s field. If the energy does not come, try a similar archetype that might better connect to your client.
TABLE WORK: If doing table work, reach with your dominant hand upward toward the outer edges of your client’s field. Connect to, feel, and sense the cord of the positive archetype and connect it into the client’s Core Being vortex just above the navel and below the third chakra. Ask the client to use all of their senses. Visualize a symbol, picture or a time in the past when the client felt connected to the energy of the positive archetype. Ask your client to let the energy of the positive archetype into their body. Ask them to notice where it feels strongest and then focus on those areas and invite the energy to fill every cell, bone and organ.
(Note: If the energy does not download, then investigate if there is an unhealthy ancestral wire in the second, third and/or forth chakras. Usually, this means you need to explore an unhealthy ancestral cord that is blocking the positive archetype. This is no longer a Solo Archetype Intervention, and it becomes an Ancestral Confluence Archetype intervention. This is diagramed next.)
NON‐TOUCH: Ask your client to resonate to their Core Being/intention line while you do the same. Use intention to sense the positive archetype and ask your client to do the same. Ask the client to use all of their senses. Visualize a symbol, picture or a time in the past when the client felt connected to the energy of the positive archetype. Ask your client to let the energy of the positive archetype into their body. Ask them to notice where it feels strongest and then focus on those areas and invite the energy to fill every cell, bone and organ.
- Step 3: If the energy covers at least 70 percent of the body, consider that a success and suggest they practice inviting the download of the positive archetype until you see them again. Eventually, you can explore what Core Distortion, negative belief or negative ancestral energy prevented the expansion throughout the body if they are not able to feel the sensation of the consciousness of the positive archetype throughout at least 90 percent of their body.
ARCHETYPE AND ANCESTRAL CONFLUENCE INTERVENTION
ARCHETYPE AND ANCESTRAL CONFLUENCE INTERVENTION
When a client follows the same negative pattern in life and you notice it is linked to the same negative pattern that their mother, father or ancestors followed, it is time for an Archetype and Ancestral Confluence Intervention. Confluence, by definition is a flowing or coming together of people and/or things. So by doing this intervention, you are able to transform any negative confluence in a person’s life. Before practicing this on someone else, attend a MeB training to learn how to do this intervention. It is complex and very technical. Get support and learn it well.
- STEP 1: Identify the negative ancestral pattern. Ask your client where they feel it in their body. Track the energy of it and investigate how the negative wire of this ancestral pattern presents in the client’s energy system. Which chakras does it wind through?
- STEP 2: Identify the positive Archetype that can replace the negative Ancestral pattern.
- Step 3: If on the table, feel the negative wire of the unhealthy Ancestral Pattern between your fingers. If this is a non-touch intervention, you and your client will have to find the negative wiring by using intention.
Resonate at the Core Being level. Follow the wire and let it dissolve or pull the wire out of the field. This also pulls out the unhealthy pattern. - STEP 4: Once the negative ancestral pattern has dissolved, ask your client to identify a positive archetypical pattern to replace the negative ancestral pattern.
TABLE WORK INTERVENTION: If doing table work, reach with your dominant hand upward toward the outer edges of your client’s field. Connect to, feel, sense the energy of the positive archetype to replace the energy of the negative ancestral pattern. Connect it into the client’s Core Being vortex just above the navel and below the third chakra. Ask the client to use all of their senses. Visualize a symbol, picture or a time in the past when the client felt connected to the energy of the positive archetype. Ask your client to let the energy of the positive archetype into their body. Ask them to notice where it feels strongest and then focus on those areas and invite the energy to fill every cell, bone and organ.
NON‐TOUCH INTERVENTION: If doing non-touch work, ask your client to resonate to the Intention Line/Core Being while you do the same. Use intention to sense the positive archetype and ask your client to do the same. Ask the client to use all of their senses. Visualize a symbol, picture or a time in the past when the client felt connected to the energy of the positive archetype. Ask your client to let the energy of the positive archetype into their body. Ask them to notice where it feels strongest and then focus on those areas and invite the energy to fill every cell, bone and organ.
WAKING UP FROM THE DREAM
Some of us believe that we are here on earth so we can learn how to “wake up” from the dream of life. This means that the reality we live is only something our mind has created. This world is only as real as our dreams at night—the only difference being that it is much more difficult to wake up from the dream of the everyday world.
Byron Katie’s book, 1000 Names of Joy, explains the view of reality she has held since 1984, when she “woke up” and began to view the world from the perspective of her enlightened mind. Katie states that everything is perfect and represents god’s will 100 percent. If something happens, it is perfect, in her view—even rape, murder, death and tragedy.
For some, this is a rather radical view. For me, it requires a constant letting go of what I think “should” or “could” happen versus what DID happen or IS happening in the moment. Seeing life as a dream can help us stop judging what is happening.
Given how deeply I am committed to personal change and to facilitating change in others, it is a huge personal challenge to view the world as not needing change. It is probably one of the hardest things we can do to view every moment in the bliss of the unknown, knowing that what happens is always perfect. This is an ideal I am enjoying more and more every day. Working with our own or a client’s dreams can help bring perspective to this ideal. We know our dreams are not reality. Should we also view everyday life as a dream that is not a clear representation of reality?
If we can do it, how might it even serve the greater good? How might it create more joy, peace and fulfillment in the world… or should I say, in the “dream” of the world?
BASIC TECHNIQUES FOR WORKING WITH DREAMS
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- If it were my dream, I imagine it would mean….
- View each character in the dream as if the character represented an aspect of you.
- Retell it in the present first person narrative and feel the feelings/emotions/energy along the way. Process the deeper meaning.
- Explore symbolism in the dreams.
- Draw the dream.
- Find the biggest energetic charge in the dream and notice where we feel that same charge in our body and energy system. Work with that charge in a Core Distortion healing to shift the LVC into HVC.
- If the dream is too traumatic, you can have a power animal or a spirit guide come into the dream with you.
- Work with pillows in a Gestalt-like fashion. Let each pillow represent a part of the dream. You can add pillows or take them away. Usually work from the areas of lowest charge to the areas of greatest charge, or isolate one aspect of the dream to start.
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Three Types Of Dreams:
1. Archetypical dreams—or, as Jung would say, dreams that represent collective consciousness.
2. Dreams that represent personal and developmental Core Distortions. Usually a person will begin seeing dreams in terms of developmental distortions and then progress to collective consciousness.
3. Precognitive dreams or dreams providing psychic information.
To make a dream less traumatic, we can ask ourselves or the client to view the dream as an issue of collective consciousness, so they are more detached. Many war dreams are about collective consciousness. After all, we are all one, so anyone tapping into the collective is also tapping into himself or herself.
Dreams can be subconscious or unconscious, and they can hold emotional material.
Even if we can only remember one aspect of a dream, we can still work with it. A teacher of mine told a story about one of their clients who could only remember a color in their dream. By working with that color, the client’s true being was revealed. He discovered that he was not a computer programmer at heart—instead, he was gay, and his passion was to be a florist. It took over a year of therapy before this client’s dreams opened up.
REVIEW QUESTIONS
1. What archetypes do you identify with? For a listing of archetypes, go to the following link:
http://metareligion.com/Psychiatry/Analytical_psychology/a_gallery_of_archetypes.htm
2. What negative ancestral patterns follow you throughout the day? What positive archetypical energies can help you realign?
3. Why might it be helpful or not helpful to view life as a dream? What are your challenges in viewing this life as a dream? What negative intention might get in the way of letting you receive the benefits of viewing life as a dream?
4. Watch your dreams for a week and write them down. Explore what wisdom they might hold.