Confidentiality Guidelines of Experiential Training Private
Sessions (NOT THERAPY)
You are required to do a minimum of 1 tutorial training sessions with a select number of approved practitioners. Information provided in private experiential training sessions is confidential and will not be disclosed except as outlined below. (This is a student teacher relationship…this is NOT THERAPY) However, you should know that confidentiality will be waved:
- If there is suspicion of child or elder abuse or neglect in the past or present.
- If I determine you are a danger to yourself or others.
- If you provide written consent to release information.
- If a court of law issues a legitimate subpoena or if you are involved in criminal proceedings.
- For support of student(s), supervisory, clairification and evaluation purposes between instructors and instructor in training .
- Email.
Real live examples can be powerful. We may refer to Student A’s transformation as an inspiration to support another person’s belief system that they too may transform.
However, as a student, it is important you honor this confidentiality agreement and not use the agreement to:
-hide pertinent information,
-misrepresent the truth,
– manipulate or
– split among the practitioners.
This also requires self-responsibility of all students to address directly with fellow students/instructors any false projections or legitimate failures on the part of the instructors/fellow students.
In order to find out what is truth, defense, or reaction – you are encouraged to own your own issues and not make someone else responsible for your reactivity or triggers.
To do this, practice going directly to the person in question and say…”I was triggered when you did x. Do not ask them to be responsible for your trigger – yet clear it up to see what was their intention and what might have been their (or your) less skillfulness or mistake.
If, after discussing the issue, if you feel they made a mistake, from Core Being, speak your truth.
However, if it was really about you, then take responsibility and align to heal that part of your wound at a deeper level.
In essence, it is not about the other person. It is always about you learning to create a deeper secure attachment within you. And!!!! If the other person actually made a mistake, I am encouraging that person to open to the vulnerability of their inner imperfection, send their human/inner child love and kindness, take responsibility and apologize. That shows they are in secure attachment with themselves and they are using emotional pain as a portal to reclaim and incarnate more of their wholeness!